This one is a delightful kind of massage that always ends with a good, strong orgasm and a cool, relaxed mood, leaving you refreshed and relaxed. The purpose of this massage is to achieve and maintain a high state of sexual arousal for as long as possible before letting things follow their course and bringing the show to a successful conclusion. Men who suffer from premature ejaculation can really benefit from erotic massages because it can get them used to maintaining a certain level of arousal without ejaculating.
Others may choose to use this massage as foreplay or as a method for enhancing the mood and increasing the erotic awareness of both lovers. For this type of massage you may want to get some CDs that are less on the romantic side and more of the stimulating variety; Iâ€™m talking about something closer to Billie Myers than to the Best Chill-Out Compilation: Volume 4 or whatever. Make liberal use of scented massage oil and make sure itâ€™s a really spicy brand, not something suited for relaxation.
As always, donâ€™t rush in and start with the genitals. Take your time and give a good all around massage before focusing on the pelvic muscles. Massage these muscles into a welcome state of relaxation that will allow your lover to achieve arousal and yet stay relaxed for a long time. Whisper into her ear how much you want her and how sexy she looks. Complete the massage by moving to the most important parts of the body. Again, donâ€™t rush; if youâ€™ve been taking things slowly thus far, donâ€™t spoil the mood now. Do a good job and remember that a prolonged and strong orgasm is better than a three-second rush to the head. Save the rush for spontaneous sex in the park. Want to learn more about Erotic Massage ? Check out LoveCentria