An entire industry has basically been built up just due to the fact that most men think they have to buy a woman things in order for to really love them. Yes, without this need, the entire diamond industry would be a tenth of what it is now. Why am I saying all of this?
Because you DON’T have to buy a woman diamonds to make her fall in love with you!
And if you continue to think that this is just something that you have to do, you are going to end up like most guys. Broke, whipped, and without a dream that they can hold onto.
Now, don’t get me wrong. I am not trying to convince you that you should never buy a woman nice things or that you are destined to end up in a boring marriage.
What I am trying to say is that you don’t have to go along with the status quo to make a woman fall in love, because frankly, the average guy does NOT have a clue on how to do this.
See, when you base things all on what you can do for her, what you can buy for her, what do you really have?
It’s not a relationship built on some magical love, it is built on all of the things that Madison Avenue wants you to spend your money on…and most of the time it will not work out like the way that you think it would.
Here are some things that will cost a LOT LESS and work a LOT BETTER to make a woman fall in love:
1. You need to learn how to talk to a woman.
Get inside her mind and find out what makes her tick. Truthfully, getting into a fun conversation where she reveals bits and pieces of herself can make it pretty easy to figure out that one thing that will make her fall hard and fast for you. Most guys end up talking about the wrong things, they ask too many questions, and they don’t let the conversation just have a flow to it. You need to have that kind of flow where it all seems so natural. Then you will start to get a good idea on what will make HER fall in love with YOU.
2. She’s got to feel like she needs to work on winning you over.
Love cannot be a one way street, and yet, most of the time that’s exactly what ends up happening. You find yourself thinking about her all of the time, always trying to figure out the key to winning her heart, and she feels nothing at all. Well, the trick is, you need to make her feel like she has to do her part as well. Don’t just move forward all of the time, pull back and make her make the move now and again. This is the natural pace of the human mating game, and you need to make it happen like this if you want to really sweep her off of her feet.
3. To make her fall head over heels in love, you have to do the subtle things.
It’s really not that one big thing that will make a woman fall head over heels in love with. It’s all of those little things that start to add up. When she can look back and see that every time she is with you, she has a good time and forgets all about her problems, then you start to look like the kid of guy that she NEEDS to be with. And that is what will really seal the deal and make her feel like YOU are the ONE!
With the right approach and the right techniques, you can easily make her fall in love with you without having to buy her diamonds and other expensive gifts…