There are times, in the middle, of a relationship, when romance flickers, and everything seems to be a routine for the both of you – a kiss in the morning, a kiss at night, and occasional I Love You’s. There are times when the both of you start to work hard, perhaps, too hard, that you forget about taking strolls together, watching movies together, and worse, make love passionately. But all things said and done, whether it be a seasonal bump in the road in your relationship, you should never let this happen. Let the romance live on and consume the both of you, even when the kids have grown up, and they are falling in love, themselves.
So you must be wondering why your husband comes home too late, or worse, barely comes home. You start to suspect that he has a lover and that he may have lost his love for you. Eventually, this can be frustrating. But before you even conclude on the situation, start thinking about what kind of relationship you have at the moment, as someone outside of the circle. Have you been so busy that you have forgotten to romanticize with him at night? Have you been too tired, that you refuse his sensual innuendos often? Or have you simply stopped being the desirable wife that you once were? If you are guilty of any of the following, why don’t you start bringing the life back into your romance. Here are some wonderful ways to make your husband come home earlier every day.
1.Talk to him a lot, but don’t nag. Communication is an integral part of a relationship. Every married couple should never forget that. To talk means to continue being interested in each other’s activities, while it does become a caring and loving gesture of affection. Ask him about the day’s work, and ask him about his problems when he seems troubled. It will make him feel that you care about him very much.
2.Massage him when he is tired. This can be a wonderful bonding moment for the both of you. Your massaging does not only relax him, but it can be the perfect time for you to lose your stresses in each others touch, for massage is a great non-verbal source of communication. Moreso, this could be a good start for a steamy, sensual night together.
3.Maintain a desirable appearance. Guys will always love an attractive visual stimulation. Always be at your best. And this does not mean looking made-up all the time, but being conscious about not looking like you just went hiking. Make him look forward to seeing you, and surprise him every now and then with a new, wonderful haircut, a sexy dress or an irresisting fragrance.
4.Buy sexy lingerie. Sexy lingeries do not deserve to be lurking inside your drawers as you wait for important occasions to wear them. In fact, you should buy sexy, quality more often, and add great variations of seductive lingerie that will enhance your shape and assets. There are a multitude of styles, colors, and fabrics that will absolutely suit your taste, mood and style. There are teddies, camisoles, baydolls, and chemises that can instantly induce a long night of passion. So don’t be so afraid about trying them on at night, just so your husband could see just how sexy you are.
5.Cook wonderful meals for dinner. Make sure that coming home for dinner is an event worth looking forward to. If you aren’t the best cook, you can learn new recipes by reading cookbooks and cooking shows that teach wives a lot of tricks to keep their husbands glued to the dining table with so much gusto. Learn more about his favorite food, and perfect them. Always remember, one great way to a man’s heart is his stomach.
Marriage is not just a solemnity, but a relationship. And relationships should be cherished and taken care of. Of course, there are times when certain things such as boredom, indifference or too much work can challenge the strength of your relationship, much more, your romance. So make sure that you and your husband will never run out new things to share and new ways to spice up your sensual life, which will keep you desiring each other for life.