You still adore your ex boyfriend and you’re wondering how to make him care about you again. You’ve come to the realization, since the break up, that a life without him is empty and loveless. You need him back and you want to make that happen. You’re not sure of the right steps to take. Fortunately, there’s help for you. You can not only make him care about you again, but you can make him love you more now than he ever has before.
One of the keys to getting him to care about you again is showing him that you’re still that same woman he fell in love with. Think back to what he loved most about you. Maybe it was your free spirit or your sense of humor. Those are the things you’re going to bring to the forefront all over again. You need to show him that you haven’t changed all that much. Be strong and focused on bringing your best qualities to the surface again. Let your best shine through.
A friendship with your ex boyfriend probably doesn’t sound all that appealing right now, does it? You want to be his romantic partner again but you’re going to have to muster up some self control and patience if you want to make him care about you again. Rebuilding the relationship on a new foundation is a great idea.
If you approach him with the idea of being friends, he’ll probably be very open to that. It’s important that you ensure that he knows that you aren’t pressuring him into anything more at this point. You have to show him what a reliable and supportive platonic friend you can be. Keep the failed romantic relationship in the past and don’t drag it into your new relationship. If you do that, he’ll be much more open to the idea of more in the future.
Stay strong and keep your self of sense throughout all of this. You’re more than worthy of his love and never question whether that’s true or not. If you believe in yourself and love the woman you are, that’s like a magnet to draw him back in. Show him that you can pick yourself up and move forward even in the face of a devastating heartbreak. He’ll find your strength and maturity irresistible and it will make him want you even more than he ever did before.